Have you ever skipped a social event or ducked out of a family photo because you aren't happy with how you look?

I get it.

I'm a size 16 and that makes me "obese" as a 5'2" woman. I don't feel obese but the body mass index says I am.

I have been asked when I was due, even though I wasn't expecting.

That hurts and makes it easy to want to hide.